Dr. Tom Cocklereece is a member of the John Maxwell Team as a Coach-Teacher-Speaker; a Life Breakthrough Coach Trainer; and a recognized discipleship specialist working with churches across the denominational spectrum to spark a disciple-making revolution and revival. Contact me to lead your leadership training and discipleship events. For training, discipleship and speaking events outside the Atlanta, GA area, I accept love or gift offerings when the inviting host pays for travel, meals, and housing. Limited weekend dates available. Contact me by email at drthomreece@bellsouth.net 
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Monday, 10 October 2011


THE NEW GREAT AWAKENING

For several years the Lord has inspired me with an interest in pulling three things together to grow the Kingdom of God: 1) deep discipleship worship, 2) focus on the persecuted church around the world, and 3) spark a spiritual awakening in America. Then I heard about Secret Church even as I began to plan something similar I call CityPointe Worship. I believe that God is up to something transformational when he inspires Christian leaders from various places with a similar idea that makes or grows disciples.

God is up to something transformational when he inspires Christian leaders from various places with a similar idea that makes or grows disciples.

I had the opportunity to attend a Secret Church event held at a Pentecostal church close to where I live called Mt. Paran North where Mark L. Walker, Ph.D. serves as Senior Pastor. The event began promptly at 6:00 PM with prayer and praise music. By 6:15 PM Pastor Walker began teaching “A Survey of the New Testament” and for the next six hours 500 people on a Friday evening listened to every word and filled in the blanks of their study guide. There were of course short breaks but without food or snacks. The point was to get to the restroom, grab a bottle of water, and return to your seat as soon a possible so as not to miss anything.



A FOCUS ON THE PERSECUTED CHURCH

The backdrop that provided such motivation to study the Bible at this event was a focus on the persecuted church around the world. During one of the “breaks” a pastor from China spoke of his life and work. His work as a pastor is unimaginable to most pastors in the west. On a typical Sunday, Pastor Jon (not his real name) leaves home at 6:00 AM to lead worship at three different locations through the day. Each church meets in a basement or other crude building that will accommodate from 20 to 40 people. He said that they often have to relocate every three weeks to avoid communist government authorities. It is difficult to remain secret once they grow to 40 or more so they have to split and replicate. (Sounds like what happened in the early church as recoreded in Acts.) If discovered, the government will arrest and often torture the pastors for their activity of making disciples of Jesus Christ. Government officials intimidate and scatter Christians who worship together secretly. The Chinese government will often demolish a building used for secret church services. The photo above is of a building that was being used by an underground church. For this reason, churches seldom sing songs or use musical instruments so as to avoid attention. If he is discovered by the government in China, he may be tortured and killed and his wife and children also persecuted simply because they worship Jesus Christ. By the time Pastor Jon arrives back home it is 11:00 PM.

PURE WORSHIP

The stories of Pastor Jon’s life and ministry are compelling. The underground churches are not consumer-driven, nor do they struggle through worship wars involving conflicting styles of music. Instead, they have come to understand “pure worship” through studying the Bible, a sermon from their pastor, life testimonies from the people, and earnest prayer. I found that what we experienced in Secret Church was an effort at “pure worship.”

Is your church consumer-driven or disciple-making driven?

It certainly was not an austere experience like that of the Chinese, but it was without much of the “fluff” characterized by many churches in the U.S. on an average Sunday. At the very least Secret Church was a deep discipleship worship experience. If given the opportunity to participate in a Secret Church service whether in a small group, home church, or traditional church setting, …do it…for the time is near!

BENEFITS OF A SECRET CHURCH OR SIMILAR EVENT

  1.  Gets people into reading and studying the Bible.
  2. The host church becomes a center of Bible teaching in the community.
  3. Evangelism…it will win some to Christ.
  4. It will get the people busy inviting others to attend since it is something new.
  5. It deepens the spiritual faith of the people.
  6. It deepens the spiritual roots of the people so they are firmly planted.
  7.  It leads people to pray for the persecuted church around the world.
  8. It leads people to appreciate their freedom to worship.
  9. It may lead to a greater commitment of the people.
  10. God may use Secret Church and other discipleship worship events to spark a new Great Awakening.
You should consider hosting a Secret Church meeting at your church or in some home settings to spark revival.

 
SD Blessings,

Dr. Tom Cocklereece, The Disciplist

QUESTIONS:
1.      What obstacle would you face by hosting a Secret Church event?
2.      How could God bring revival to your community using Secret Church?
3.      Would you describe your church as consumer-driven or disciple-making driven?

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Dr. Tom Cocklereece is CEO of RENOVA Coaching and Consulting, LLC
Author “Simple Discipleship,” contributing writer L2L Blogazine
He is a pastor, an author, professional coach, and leadership specialist

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Friday, 07 October 2011


DISCIPLESHIP BEST PRACTICES: #9 – 10 BENEFITS OF PEER GROUP DISCIPLESHIP

This series of articles explores thirteen major methods that are effective for making disciples. Keep in mind that in a ubiquitous (all encompassing, everywhere present) disciple-making process, virtually each method is not only encouraged but is planned into the church ministries. Here is a list including links to articles that have been completed in the series:

·    Simple Discipleship: A Comprehensive Disciple-Making Plan- The Simple Discipleship Virtual Book Tour- (updated) originally posted in 2010

·    DISCIPLESHIP BEST PRACTICES: 13 Ways to Make Disciples

1. Passive Discipleship: the least effective method but essential to support other methods

2. Private Discipleship: the Christian and the Holy Spirit (most effective but under used)

3. Presence Discipleship: In times of crisis the disciple invests time, assistance, and prayer.

4. Participation or Proximity Discipleship: applies to all areas but most of all to giving

5. Projected DiscipleshipActively but humbly projecting a Christian example of living Christ’s teachings.

6. Platform or Presentation Discipleship: preaching in church and lecture-style Bible study

7. Program Discipleship: Pre-packaged materials delivered in large or small groups.

8. Personal Discipleship: One-on-one discipleship (very effective but seldom used)

9. Peer Group Discipleship: Bible study and Sunday School

10.  Practical Discipleship: Hands on service, evangelism, and missional projects

11.  Proficiency Discipleship: Leadership Development

12.  Proclamation Discipleship: Evangelism and preaching to unchurched

13.  Process Discipleship: All of the above delivered in a systematic way


WHAT IS PEER GROUP DISCIPLESHIP?

The previous article in this series was about “Personal Discipleship,” also known as one-to-one discipleship. The present article is about “Peer Group Discipleship,” also known as small group discipleship and it is one of the most effective methods when done well. Encarta Dictionary defines “peer” as someone who is equal to another in age or social class. Churches have done well at making disciples using peer groups called Sunday school classes or small groups. They tend to be natural groupings based on a number of demographic, social, and spiritual commonalities. The things they have in common functions as the “glue” for an ongoing community relationship. The positive effect of psychosocial development and interaction in peer groups has been well documented in recent years. However, the benefits of spiritual growth compound the overall growth and development of the group as a supportive community.

Peer group discipleship engages the class in interaction, reflection, evaluation, and an assessment of values. People today inside and outside the church experience an ever increasing level of dysfunction. Discipleship peer groups lead people deeper in their relationships with Christ and with one another. The effectively learn to love one another and as a result they become a faith community within the church. A healthy church of any size should have healthy or holistic small groups.

PEER GROUP DISCIPLESHIP IS INTENTIONAL

Simply forming Sunday school classes and small group Bible study units does not automatically qualify as peer group discipleship. There are many examples of teachers of Sunday school classes and small groups who show up to impress their groups with their insights into Scripture but have no clue about how to make disciple-making disciples. Many think their job is to teach the Bible but their job should be—make disciples. A group leader with the perspective of making disciples connects with people and creates community. A disciple-making peer group leader is infective! It is sad to say that many classes and groups will meet this week and the group could just as well push a button on a CD/MP3 player for their weekly lesson. Jesus taught with passion, examples, Biblical authority, and love. Effective peer group discipleship does what Jesus did.

10 BENEFITS OF PEER GROUP DISCIPLESHIP

Peer group discipleship has many benefits and here are ten:

  1. Members of peer group classes disciple one another as they share Bible knowledge, insights, and application points.
  2. An excellent facilitator guides the Bible study and discussion in a manner that engages the entire group.
  3. Provides a visual and living illustration of three-way reconciliation (forgiveness from God, forgiveness of self, and forgiveness of others).
  4. Demonstrates Christian unity (all for one and one for all).
  5. Encourages perpetual spiritual growth as less spiritually mature interact with those more spiritually mature.
  6. Provides social relationships in the church context as well as outside the church in the community.
  7. Provides social stability for those within the group as they interact to meet needs and love one another.
  8. Teaches the roles of each as related to the identification and use of spiritual gifts and natural talents.
  9. The group culture encourages chosen accountability as related to Christian behavior.
  10. Groups collectively form a healthy church and provide for the overall needs for ministry.

Can you think of more benefits of peer group discipleship? Please share them in the comments section.

SD Blessings,

Dr. Tom Cocklereece, The Disciplist

QUESTIONS:

1.      Ten benefits of peer group discipleship are listed. Can you share some more?

2.      Could your small group leader easily be replaced by a CD/MP3 player and hardly miss the leader?

3.      Is disciple-making the focus of your Sunday school and small group Bible study units?

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Dr. Tom Cocklereece is CEO of RENOVA Coaching and Consulting, LLC
Author “Simple Discipleship,” contributing writer L2L Blogazine
He is a pastor, an author, professional coach, and leadership specialist

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Thursday, 06 October 2011


MINISTRY LEADERSHIP COMPETENCIES

Do you find yourself becoming an expert of many things other than for ministry such as preaching, teaching, evangelism, and discipleship? Make your own ministry competency cloud.

What is your church leadership competency cloud? Most of my readers are now scratching their collective heads as they are wondering what I am writing about in this article. To understand where I am going with this you need to be familiar with the meaning of the term “word cloud.” It is weighted list or a visual representation for text data, typically used to depict keyword metadata tags on websites. Words that are used more frequently are given a higher weight and therefore appear larger in the final visual. Some search engines use the resulting information to rank websites according to their key words.

It occurred to me that a similar exercise might be useful to visually illustrate church leadership roles based on how much time a leader spends preparing and performing each role. The word graph is not as scientific as the word cloud used for website ratings but it is still revealing. To create it, descriptive words limited to various roles were listed. The same words were repeated once or more depending on how much time the leader spends preparing and performing each role. The result is like the one shown above. Create yours using one of the following links: Wordle (
http://www.wordle.net/create) or Word it Out (http://worditout.com/word-cloud/make-a-new-one). With either site you may create your word graph, save it on the site and have it sent to your email as a picture file that you can use. Please share your leadership competency cloud with me by sending it to drthomreece@gmail.com .

THE MINISTRY OF MULTITASKING

Pastors fill many roles and this is doubly true for pastors of small churches. Small church pastors must be masters of multitasking. Each day is an adventure as the small church pastor may wear many hats before retiring to bed. Pastors of large and mega-churches often have the luxury of being able to delegate or hire someone to do the tasks. The small church pastor does not have the luxury of being able to do this and must often learn how to do many tasks that were never discussed during their course of education. The tasks are often necessary to the specific church or ministry, the pastor would certainly prefer to delegate or hire someone to do the task, and often finds himself having to develop the knowledge and ability to do the task. One final point is the pastor’s primary duties often suffer because he is spending so much time and energy on the other tasks.

REAL VS ASPIRED MINISTRY ROLES

Perhaps you are ready to curtail doing some of your tasks that are not directly related to church leadership. The following exercise combined with the previous word graph you created might help bridge the gap and provide some motivation. You might create two different word graphs: one to reflect how much time you spend preparing and performing each role, and another graph to reflect each role according to how much time you desire to spend in each role. Visualization is a powerful motivator and may be useful to help you set goals to make your aspiration graph a reality.

SD Blessings,

Dr. Tom Cocklereece, The Disciplist

QUESTIONS:
1.      After you create your word graph based on what you actually do, what activities do you desire to keep and which do you want to eliminate or delegate?
2.      Is it reasonable to eliminate some activities until God provides a volunteer or the resources to hire an able person?
3.      Are you multitasking because you can’t say “No?”
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Dr. Tom Cocklereece
 is CEO of RENOVA Coaching and Consulting, LLC
Author “Simple Discipleship,” contributing writer L2L Blogazine
He is a pastor, an author, professional coach, and leadership specialist

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Tuesday, 27 September 2011


SIMPLE DISCIPLESHIP: 3 STORIES FROM THE CHURCHES


Simple Discipleship was published in 2009 and The Disciple-Maker’s Toolkit in July, 2011, so this simple church discipleship process has been “out there” long enough for church leaders to begin sharing their experiences. It is one thing that the Simple Discipleship book has received very good reviews but church leaders want more than a book, they want something that works. I have received several reports from pastors in the field about how the Spiritual Vitality Assessment is a great tool for creating a disciple-making culture. The Spiritual Vitality Assessment was introduced in the Simple Discipleship book as the SD-360 Survey but remains unchanged despite the change of nomenclature. It consists of 40 statements based on biblical values and expectations discussed in both books. The 40 statements or questions are divided into four sections in which participants may sore a total of 400 cumulatively out of a possible 100 in each section. Here are three stories of how the assessment is working in the churches.



THE SPIRITUAL VITALITY ASSESSMENT RESULTS IN SALVATION

One of the first churches that began using Simple Discipleship decided to change question #2 in the WORSHIP section of the assessment. Question #2 says, “ I know that when I die I will go to heaven” with the ability of the participant to respond with an answer from 0 to 10. The church leaders left the question as is but changed the response section so that the participant could only respond with either a 0 or 10. A “0” response meant “I don’t know” and a “10” response meant “I am sure.” The church leadership gave the Spiritual Vitality Assessment in Sunday school classes. Three people from different classes went to talk privately with their respective teachers or with a trusted friend. In each of the three cases the individuals said that the assessment led them to think specifically about their salvation. They were convicted by question #2 and subsequently received Jesus and Lord and were baptized. The questions cause participants to think personally about their own standing in relation to their beliefs.



THE SPIRITUAL VITALITY ASSESSMENT SHOCKS A CHURCH TO ACTION

From the introduction of Simple Discipleship, I have encouraged churches to give the Spiritual Vitality Assessment only when the pastor is serving and supportive of the process. However, an interim pastor contacted me a couple of years ago and asked me to give the assessment in the church where he was serving. The church was clearly struggling and had been in serious decline for several years. The assessment was given and I prepared a report of the compiled assessments. The pie graph of the results was shocking as the green MISSIONS section was very small. This is an indication of a dying church that has virtually no community connection. The green section for the church is called the “Community Missional Footprint” and is an indicator of missional involvement. The pie graph illustration shown here brought audible gasps from the congregation but then resulted in a significant level of missional projects in the community. The church has since made progress and has the potential of resurgence.

THE SPIRITUAL VITALITY ASSESSMENT CONVICTS A LEADER TO SERVE

Recently I had been doing Discipleship Coach Training for a church planting pastor and his staff. The pastor had struggled with starting small group Bible studies as they lacked willing and qualified teachers. A potential leader joined the new church and had volunteered to start a new small group. Unfortunately, he backed out with little or no explanation. Concurrently, the pastor had given the Spiritual Vitality Assessment to the church congregation and a surprising thing happened. The person who had back out of leading small groups contacted the pastor and let him know that he was disturbed by the Spiritual Vitality Assessment results and felt convicted by the Lord to step up to his earlier commitment of leadership. The pastor was very pleased and contacted me to once again share his testimony of how Simple Discipleship was helping establish a disciple-making culture in the church.

More stories will follow as church leaders are sharing with us. The proverbial proof will be in the pudding as leaders and churches become effective at making disciple-makers.

SD Blessings,

Dr. Tom Cocklereece, The Disciplist

QUESTIONS:

1.      What process does your church use to make disciples?

2.      How may the Spiritual Vitality Assessment could help your church become a disciple-making church?

3.      What is the Community Missional Footprint of your church?

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Dr. Tom Cocklereece is CEO of RENOVA Coaching and Consulting, LLC
Author “Simple Discipleship,” contributing writer L2L Blogazine
He is a pastor, an author, professional coach, and leadership specialist

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Saturday, 24 September 2011
 

DISCIPLESHIP COACHING


WHAT IS A DISCIPLE?

What is discipleship coaching? Perhaps we should look at each term separately. The term discipleship comes from the word “disciple” and means “follower, student, or devotee.” The origin of the English word is from the word “pupil” or “discipul” which is Old English from Latin discipulus meaning pupil, and from from discere which means “to learn.” It denotes a specialized pupil—a disciple. For our use of the term, a disciple is a follower of Jesus Christ, yet because even this meaning is vague to many Christians today, we must be more specific. In Luke 6:46 Jesus gave us a good definition of “disciple.”

 “But why do you call Me ‘Lord, Lord,’ and do not do the things which I say? Luke 6:46 (NKJV)

So, if we are going to call ourselves Christians (lit. to be like Christ), if we are going to follow Christ then we must do what he says, and of course we learn that from the Bible, genuine Christian family and friends, our church experience, our daily worship time, and perhaps a disciple coach. His final command before he ascended to heaven was, and I am being consistent with his intent rather than what we have made it, “Go make disciple-making disciples.”

WHAT IS DISCIPLESHIP?

The term “discipleship” is the combination of two words: “disciple” and “ship.” The suffix “-ship” derives from the Old English suffix “-scipe” and means “to shape” or “to guide.”  Thus, it can be said that discipleship is the shaping or guiding of a person to not only follow Christ but to be like Christ. We could easily morph the word discipleship into the term “disciple-guide” or even “disciple-coach.” The present discussion is important because there appears to be great confusion over the definition of disciple and discipleship.

Thus, it can be said that discipleship is the shaping or guiding of a person to not only follow Christ but to be like Christ. We could easily morph the word “discipleship” into the term “disciple-guide” or even “disciple-coach.” Both terms are more easily understood.

Following our logic, discipleship is the process of shaping and guiding a follower of Christ. The work of a sculptor fits the description quite well as the artist begins with a large piece of rock and begins purposefully chipping away, while all the time the artist has the ultimate final shape in his mind as he works. Be assured that God in the person of the Holy Spirit is the actual sculptor of disciples, but he does use others as instruments of the sculpting. With God directing the process, the disciple-coach sees the imperfections in the medium, he ultimately sees Christ within the growing disciple. The disciple-coach guides the process with the co-active participation of the disciple, as it is the only way the process of discipleship works—active participation of the disciple. At this point we have defined the word “coach” as one who comes along side the disciple to encourage, guide, and ask questions that motivate self-awareness and a spiritual growth response.

If staff has been serving a church for 3-5 years & can’t describe their church as a “disciple making” church, what have they been doing?

NEGLECTED DISCIPLESHIP

It is unhealthy to ignore the “elephant” in the room and I think biblical discipleship is the neglected elephant in many churches. Pushing hard for un-discipled church members to be evangelists simply ignores the elephant in the church…namely, un-discipled Christians, casual Christians, carnal Christians, and non-Christians don’t evangelize. Out of the 13 methods of making disciples, many churches intentionally employ only three or four on an ongoing basis and even then it often is not delivered in a process. Remember that a process is measurable as with the Simple Discipleship balanced scorecard and spiritual vitality graph.

Pushing hard for un-discipled church members to be evangelists simply ignores the elephant in the church…namely, un-discipled Christians, casual Christians, carnal Christians, and non-Christians don’t evangelize.

GET RID OF THE ELEPHANTS

Simple Discipleship is a ubiquitous simple church discipleship process. Okay, “ubiquitous” means everywhere present which means that disciple-making should be an intentional part of everything the church does. This supports my contention that the church has one purpose, make disciple-making disciples. The activities of worship, prayer, fellowship, ministry, and missions support the mandate of the church, make disciple-making disciples. A message from many great leadership books is “Keep the main thing the main thing.” When churches make disciple-making disciples the elephants of apathy, theological liberalism, and busyness to accomplish busyness all float away.

When churches make disciple-making disciples the elephants of apathy, theological liberalism, and busyness to accomplish busyness all float away.

Disciple-Maker

TRAIN AND ENGAGE DISCIPLESHIP COACHES

To the point, church leaders can launch a real Great Commission Resurgence at the “grass roots” level by doing several things:

  1. Disciple-making will not be the main thing unless PASTORS make it the main thing!
  2. Implement a simple church discipleship process.
  3. Establish Christian Coaching Ministries in the church and task them with disciple-making and assisting with maintaining a disciple-making culture in everything the church does. A Christian Coaching Ministry could be the engine that sparks congregational prayer, evangelism, missions, outreach, and new growth. In these challenging economic times, a new ministry like this could breathe new life into many churches of all sizes.
  4. Equip Discipleship Coaches: When churches act upon the first three points in this section, I recommend that they train and engage at least four (4) discipleship coaches. The present point needs more explanation:

SD Discipleship Coaches

Each coach should be in charge of only one Simple Discipleship domain (Worship, Word, Ministry, or Missions). Each coach has several responsibilities:

  • Provide opportunities for people as related to the respective domain for which each discipleship coach is responsible. For instance, the Missions Discipleship Coach should coordinate missional and missions opportunities.
  • Connect people to discipleship growth opportunities in their particular domain.
  • Collaborate with other Discipleship Coaches to ensure a working process.
  •  The four Discipleship Coach positions should be divided between both men and women. The reason for this is defined in the next point.
  • Each Discipleship Coach should focus on personal discipleship and peer group discipleship, providing discipleship coaching for new Christians and any others who desire to grow. New Christians and others should be paired with Discipleship Coaches of the same gender for obvious reasons. The length and frequency of sessions may be determined by each church however, Simple Discipleship encourages a minimum of one hour session for six weeks using New Christian Life Coaching that focuses on discipling individuals so they may begin spiritually feeding themselves.

Finally, another elephant in the churches, specifically in staff meetings, is that traditional Christian church education ministries are not making disciples. There are exceptions but pastors should ask the hard question directed to staff members whether they are ministers of education, counselors, administrators, youth leaders, teachers, and custodians, “How many disciples are you making?” Every staff leader should be actively working with individuals and groups on a regular basis to make disciple-making disciple makers. THE BIGGER QUESTION IS…”DO CHRISTIAN CHURCH LEADERS KNOW HOW TO MAKE DISCIPLES RATHER THAN CONVERTS?”

Simple Discipleship can provide certified Christian coach training for your leaders. We can also help you develop your Christian Coaching Ministry that can launch a revival from the inside out. Go to the “Coach Training” tab at the top of this page for information.

Go Make Disciple-Makers!

Tom Cocklereece, DMin, CLBC

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QUESTIONS:

  1. Do you agree with the premise that “discipleship” derives from Old English words that may be boiled down to “disciple-coaching?”
  2. Do you believe traditional church ministry approaches are effective at discipleship? Why r why not?
  3. Do you agree that the “elephant” in many churches is that they are not focusing on the main thing, making disciple-makers?
  4. Does your church have a Christian Coaching Ministry that is separate from the counseling ministry?

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Dr. Tom Cocklereece is the author of Simple Discipleship: How to Make Disciples in the 21st Century which was published and released by Church Smart Resources in November 2009. He is also the author of a new resource just released (2011) titledThe Disciple-Maker’s Toolkit the first publication of RENOVA Coaching and Consulting LLC.

http://www.simplediscipleship.com

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Dr. Tom Cocklereece is CEO of RENOVA Coaching and Consulting, LLC

Author “Simple Discipleship,” contributing writer L2L Blogazine
He is a pastor, an author, professional coach, discipleship and leadership specialist

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Wednesday, 21 September 2011
 TRAIN EVERY CHRISTIAN TO MAKE DISCIPLES?

Each book includes a code for an online UNIQUELY YOU! DISC profile.

A pastor friend asked me what I was currently working on and I told him about The Disciple-Maker’s Toolkit. I also offered that I planned to use it in workshops and discipleship coaching to equip all Christians to share Christ and then to disciple new Christians ASAP (As Soon As Possible). The idea is to encourage and equip Christians not only with the ability to share their faith but to then nurture or disciple those they win to Christ at least to the point where they may feed themselves. My pastor friend seemed surprised and questioned not whether I could but whether I should have such a vision. I was perplexed by his response. His view was much like that of many Christian leaders that says. “Leave the driving to us.” You may remember the old Greyhound bus buy line. My friend had adopted a view that says only the pastor, or person with theological education may disciple people. Another point he made was that he wanted to spend his time winning people to Christ and he was sure that the Holy Spirit would take care of the discipling. How is that working? We need but see the many articles and statistics about church decline.

Eagles in Leadership podcast in which Dr. Tom Cocklereece discusses "The Disciple-Maker's Toolkit." (Click --> Eagles in Leadership Podcast)

A MEMBER’S SIMPLE DISCIPLESHIP WORKBOOK

I did not initially plan to write what became The Disciple-Maker’s Toolkit, as my plan was to write a primer for new Christians. However, I already had been using several assessments as I was personally discipling Christians. The assessments were the usual battery of useful tools to encourage self-awareness and spiritual growth such as:

  • The Simple Discipleship Spiritual Vitality Assessment
  • A doctrinal assessment created for my doctorate
  • A spiritual gifts assessment
  • A DISC personality traits assessment 

I began to consider the idea of combining the typical assessments used in disciple-making, adding the basics of Simple Discipleship, and including some additional material to enhance the usefulness of the material. The result is The Disciple-Maker’s Toolkit. As with anything a writer produces, there are already some things I desire to add or improve. Perhaps in a second edition that would break the material into twelve weekly segments and I have already begun providing a separate guide to help leaders use the Toolkit in such a manner.

Each Toolkit comes with the 12 week study guide included in this article. Additional support materials will be added to the Simple Discipleship website.

WHAT’S IN THE TOOLKIT?

The Toolkit is a concise collection of disciple-making materials that includes a simple way to understand and live the Christian life. Here is the Table of Contents laid out in my 12 week format with some explanation for disciple-making:

Week 1- Introduction

  • The Disciple-Maker’s Oath- calls for the disciple-maker and the “student” to accept a proper view of Jesus’ Great Commission that every Christian is supposed to be a disciple-maker. The point from the church leader’s perspective is to cultivate a culture of disciple-makers.
  • How to Use the Disciple-Maker’s Toolkit- defines what the Toolkit is and how to use it.
  • Disciple-Maker’s Toolkit Introduction- presents the Gospel and then the vision of every Christian being a disciple-maker.

Week 2

  • What Is Simple Discipleship- a summary of the primary values of Simple Discipleship. It iterates the fact that a disciple’s actions are based on heart values.

Week 3

  • The Biblical Basis of God’s Expectations of Christians- Within each of the primary value domains of Simple Discipleship are 10 basic expectations God has for every disciple. One could argue that there are more, but this is a starting point for many Christians. Remember instruction from Dr. Thom Rainer and Eric Geiger from their bookSimple Church which presented the four characteristics of a church with a simple discipleship process—clarity, movement, alignment, and focus. Each of these are designed into Simple Discipleship plus some additional qualities such as measurability (Simple Discipleship was the first to provide a balanced scorecard for churches), scalability, and reproducibility, to name three. The expectations build missional DNA into the life of the Christian as well as small groups and the church.

Week 4

  • Simple Discipleship Spiritual Vitality Assessment- in the Simple Discipleship book it is called the SD-360 Survey with the original idea of “living life around the cross.” The concept still works but the end result is increased spiritual vitality.
  • The Balanced Christian Life- ditto, however using one’s scores on the assessment, a visual graph is produced to show the relationships of service in all four discipleship domains. Too many Christians spend most of their church connection time in only one or two domains—Worship and Word.

Week 5

  • The Stages of Spiritual Growth- According to Barna Research, most pastors cannot define the biblical stages of spiritual growth. This is a problem since a disciplist must know what the desired fruit should look like as well as the stages on the way.
  • Simple Discipleship Spiritual Growth Matrix- a visual of the Stages of Spiritual Growth.

Week 6

  • How to Have a Daily Worship Time- an absolute must for growing Christians that can change your church.

Week 7

  • Disciple’s Doctrinal Assessment- This was my project as I was working toward my doctoral degree. It is statically valid and reliable assessment that is based on The Baptist Faith and Message 2000, but has been found to be useful for any evangelical Christian.
  • Doctrinal Study Guide- a reprint of The Baptist Faith and Message 2000 that includes all of the Bible verses for support that may be used as a doctrinally based study guide.

Week 8

  • Simple Evangelism- SE Card Edition- The logo of Simple Discipleship or any church with a contextualized logo may use the visual logo as a simple evangelism presentation.
  • Simple Evangelism- Napkin Evangelism Edition- This is a reprint of one of my own most read articles from theSimple Discipleship Blog. The point is to encourage people to learn to share their faith in simple visual and storied ways.

Week 9

  • Simple Discipleship New Life Coaching- Using the back side of the Simple Evangelism card includes a simple list of the primary values and expectations of Simple Discipleship that may be used for a 4 to 6 week period to disciple new Christians.

Week 10

  • Disciple’s Spiritual Gifts and Assessment- a spiritual gifts assessment of 12 of the biblically identified spiritual gifts with their definitions as related to disciples.

Week 11

  • People Skills and DISC- an introduction to the concept and use of DISC personality trait assessments as a “people skills” tool to aid in disciple-making.
  • Your DISC Personality Profile- a word-based DISC personality trait profile assessment. As of 8/23/2010 each Toolkit comes with a code for use to complete the DISC on the website ofUniquely You by Dr. Mels Carbonell.
  • Squirrelly DISC- an entertaining look at personality traits- between 460 and 370 BC Hippocrates developed the concept of four primary personality types into a medical theory—choleric, sanguine, phlegmatic, and melancholic. More recently the four personality types were renamed as D-dominant, I-inspiring, S-steady, and C-competent. Gary Smally reclassified them respectively as lion, otter, golden retriever, and beaver. Me and my wife Janice have fun with applying the four personality types to…squirrels. Funny and entertaining!
  • Simple Discipleship and DISC Personality Traits- an explanation of how Christians of either DISC personality trait sometimes have a tendency to focus on one domain of the Christian life and encourages them to live a balanced Christian life through serving in each domain.
  • Combined Simple Discipleship and DISC Assessment- An assessment that helps people determine whether they tend to serve in one domain.

Week 12

  • Applying Simple Discipleship- answers the question, “What now?”
  • Simple Discipleship Key Ideas- a summary of The Disciple-Maker’s Toolkit on one page.

HOW TO USE THE TOOLKIT

There are several ideal uses for The Disciple-Maker’s Toolkit:

  • discipleship conferences
  • leadership team training for discipleship
  • by church planters launching a simple church discipleship process
  • by pastors launching a simple church discipleship process
  • by disciplers doing one-on one or group discipleship
  • by Sunday school and small group leaders for a quarter
  • by Christian Coaching Ministries
  • for individual self-training for disciple-making
  • for online disciple-making training

The Toolkit is authored by Dr. Tom Cocklereece and printed by RENOVA Coaching and Consulting that now has a Coach Training Academy. The workbook is 66 pages and is available in print as well as ebook format. You may purchase The Disciple-Maker’s Toolkit at the following sites:

  1. Simple Discipleship website store– The cost is $12.00 each and discounts may be provided for quantity by emailing tom@simplediscipleship.com .
  2. Amazon Kindle ereader- This is the Amazon Kindle version and has some problems but you can get a general idea before purchasing the printed version that is only available at the Simple Discipleship site. Assessments do not work well on the ebook versions. Price = $7.50
  3. Barnes and Noble Nook ereader– This is the Barnes and Noble Nook version that works reasonably well but again, assessments do not work very well on ebook readers. Price = $7.50
SIMPLE DISCIPLESHIP MINISTRIES- HELPING YOU MAKE DISCIPLE MAKERS

Simple Discipleship is now a provider for two excellent publications: 1) Simple Discipleship- to help church leaders develop a simple church discipleship process that works, and 2) The Disciple-Maker’s Toolkit- to introduce lay Christians and leaders to the Simple Discipleship process and equip them as disciple-makers.

Simple Discipleship is also now a certified coach training academy and is affiliated with the Biblical Coaching Alliance and the Life Breakthrough Academy. Thus, we now provide several levels of coaching and coach training such as: 1) Certified Christian Life-Coach Training- to equip individuals to serve as leaders of church Christian coaching ministries, 2) Simple Discipleship Coaching- to help church leaders implement SD, 3) Disciple Coach Training- to train coaches to coach church leaders to implement SD, 4) Discipleship Coaching Training- and 5) we will soon offer RENEW Wellness Coach Training- a church-based support group ministry that incorporates Simple Discipleship principles.

Go Make Disciple-Makers!

Tom Cocklereece, DMin, LBCT

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QUESTIONS:

  1. Do you believe the churches have effectively equipped and empowered the laity to make disciples?
  2. Do you believe traditional church ministry approaches are effective at discipleship? Why or why not?
  3. What process does your church use to make disciple-making disciples?
  4. Does your church have a Christian Coaching Ministry that is separate from the counseling ministry?

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Dr. Tom Cocklereece is the author of Simple Discipleship: How to Make Disciples in the 21st Century which was published and released by Church Smart Resources in November 2009. He is also the author of a new resource just released (2011) titled The Disciple-Maker’s Toolkit the first publication of RENOVA Coaching and Consulting LLC.

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Dr. Tom Cocklereece is CEO of RENOVA Coaching and Consulting, LLC

Author “Simple Discipleship,” contributing writer L2L Blogazine
He is a pastor, an author, professional coach, discipleship and leadership specialist

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Saturday, 17 September 2011
This series of articles explores foundational principles of church health as related to discipleship. At the outset there are several premises to identify. Many leaders seem to approach discipleship as one essential feature among other equal elements of a healthy church. This author has a differing perspective. Since THE purpose of the church is to “make disciples,” discipleship is the primary feature of a healthy church that determines the long-term health and vitality of a church. In fact as goes discipleship, so goes the other aspects of the church. Granted that other elements often contribute to the vitality of a church for a time, discipleship contributes to the sustainability of the church’s vitalaity.

For this series we will look at the church as a system of processes that work together. Granted that the church is an organism but for this series we will use an automobile as our mental model. A living organism is made of many complex systems and an automobile is an inorganic ordered collection of systems.

THE NEGLECTED DISCIPLESHIP ENGINE

In my book Simple Discipleship, I compare the discipleship process in the church to an engine of a car, in this case a four cylinder engine. I also called attention to the fact that discipleship is neglected in favor of many other activities…albeit good ones. Mike Breen recently observed that for every 100 tweets about missions there was only one tweet about discipleship. In his guest post for vergenetwork.org he identified discipleship as the driver for being missional and many other aspect and activities of a healthy church.

So what is the engine of the church? Discipleship. I’ve said it many times: If you make disciples, you will always get the church. But if you try to build the church, you will rarely get disciples.
If you’re good at making disciples, you’ll get more leaders than you’ll know what to do with. If you make disciples like Jesus made them, you’ll see people come to faith who didn’t know Him. If you disciple people well, you will always get the missional thing. Mike Breen, “Why The Missional Movement Will Fail” on the vergenetwork.org (http://www.vergenetwork.org/2011/09/14/mike-breen-why-the-missional-movement-will-fail/)

My analogy differs from that of Breen somewhat but I think we agree on the major point: Discipleship is the key to sustainable ministry and a vital church.



SEE YOUR CHURCH AS A SYSTEM
Open the hood of your car and do a white handkerchief test on the engine and usually you will get really dirty. A car chassis with an engine illustrates a church very well, as the outer body of each church is different but the essential inner workings are similar. Consider that a car symbolizes a church, the engine is discipleship, and each wheel is an essential element that appears to provide movement, however, the engine provides the energy for the wheels to move. Each wheel represents an essential element of a vital church such as evangelism, fellowship, community, and Holy Spirit guided leadership.

Many leaders focus on one part of the system all of the time or they may give attention to one system and then another. Both of these scenarios neglect the primary component or heart of the automobile…the engine. For our analogy we will use a four cylinder engine car. We could use a larger engine but I liken the four cylinder engine to the four chamber heart of a person. In Simple Discipleship each cylinder represents one primary value of a vital church: Worship- Know Christ, Word- Grow in Christ, Ministry- Serve Christ, and Missions- Share Christ. A church firing on all four of these cylinders will often transfer the energy to the other four resulting essential activities: evangelism, fellowship, community, and Holy Spirit led leadership.

FIX THE DISCIPLESHIP ENGINE
Back to our dirty engine thought that symbolizes discipleship which can be messy, tedious, time consuming, and requires specialized knowledge and tools. However, it must be done if the car/church is going to move. When it comes to my car, I am not a mechanic so I am intimidated by it. Some leaders are intimidated or do not fully understand the process of discipleship, while others are content with working on the evangelism or fellowship wheel. These efforts will not produce sustainable growth if the discipleship engine is broken. We must fix the discipleship engine by restoring Christ’s intention of the Great Commission, specifically “make disciple-making disciples.”

It is pleasing to see leaders like Mike Breen giving proper attention to discipleship. Perhaps we will see a genuine discipleship revolution soon. Simple Discipleship provides the process, materials, tools, and coaching to help leaders become the "church mechanic." Let us help you overhaul your discipleship engine.

QUESTIONS:
1.      What process does your church use to make disciples?
2.      Do you agree or disagree with the points made?
3.      Why do evangelism and missions get primary attention while discipleship is often neglected?
SD Blessings,

Dr. Tom Cocklereece, The Disciplist


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Dr. Tom Cocklereece is CEO of RENOVA Coaching and Consulting, LLC
Author “Simple Discipleship,” contributing writer L2L Blogazine
He is a pastor, an author, professional coach, and leadership specialist

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Thursday, 15 September 2011
HOW BIG IS YOUR SPIRITUAL VITALITY PIE?

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I was recently working with a group of about seventeen people using The Disciple-Maker’s Toolkit when one person said, “My pie is too small. I want it to be bigger!”

We were on Week 4 of the Toolkit and each person had completed the Spiritual Vitality Assessment also known as the SD-360 Survey in the book Simple Discipleship. The assessment provides four scores, one for each discipleship domain—Worship: Know Christ, Word: Grow in Christ, Ministry: Serve Christ, and Missions: Share Christ. To obtain a divisor, the four numbers are added. The sum is used as a divisor of each of the four values to obtain the percentage of the whole each domain value represents. Sine each person’s scores may differ; each person obtains a different number to use as the divisor. This number again, represents a total of a possible score of 400. That was when one man observed, “My pie is too small.” He was commenting on the quality of his own discipleship score, as he expected it to be better than it was. His score indicated balance between the four discipleship domains of Worship, Word, Ministry, and Missions, but his “pie was too small.”

4 Ways to Motivate Spiritual Growth

The Spiritual Vitality Assessment generates spiritual growth in several ways:

  1. The whole process of Simple Discipleship is designed to generate chosen accountability by encouraging people to take the responsibility for their own spiritual growth.
  2.  The assessment provides qualitative values so the disciple may see their high and low numbers. If they have a low Missions score, then they may be motivated to get involved in a mission trip offered by the church.
  3. The assessment provides people with needed spiritual life-balance. After completing the assessment a visual pie graph is generated so they may see the balance or imbalance of the four discipleship domain values. People tend to get comfortable in one area of life, in this case, Worship, Word, Ministry, or Missions. It is a complex mixture of personality (DISC) and spiritual giftedness. (Both of these assessments are also in the Toolkit). Spiritual Life-Balance is important to the development of a healthy disciple as it reflects life lived around the cross.
  4. The assessment motivates people to get moving spiritually. The assessment will indicate a different size pie graph based on the total of the four primary discipleship domain numbers. Perhaps it is something that must be mentally visualized. Two people in our group had scores that illustrated balance but one had a cumulative Spiritual Vitality Score of 201 while the other had a score of 355. Since the maximum possible total for this assessment is 400, the person with the 201 score is not satisfied and wants “a bigger pie.”
 
SD Blessings,

Dr. Tom Cocklereece, The Disciplist

QUESTIONS:
1.      What is the importance of life-balance as related to finances, spiritual life, relationships, health, etc.?
2.      If life-balance is important than is spiritual life balance important?
3.      How do you currently measure spiritual life balance in your church?
4.      How do you currently motivate spiritual life balance AND growth?

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Dr. Tom Cocklereece is CEO of RENOVA Coaching and Consulting, LLC
Author “Simple Discipleship,” contributing writer L2L Blogazine
He is a pastor, an author, professional coach, and leadership specialist

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